How to prepare for a divorce?

Louisa Bestford, Senior Associate, Divorce & Family

1. Gather Important Documents
Tip: Collect all relevant documents that we might need to review.

Examples:

• Marriage certificate
• Prenuptial or postnuptial agreements
• Details of bank accounts, investments, debts
• Property information, a valuation if available
• Tax returns
• Employment information
• Any correspondence related to the divorce

Benefit: Having these documents ready will help us understand your financial situation and any agreements that may impact the divorce proceedings.

2. Think about your goals

Examples:

• Arrangements for children
• Division of assets and debts
• Spousal support
• Any immediate concerns, such as domestic violence or financial support

Benefit: Clearly outlining your goals and concerns will help us understand your priorities and tailor our advice accordingly.

3. Prepare a List of Questions
Tip: Write down any questions you have about the divorce process, your rights, and potential outcomes.

Examples:

• What are my rights regarding child child arrangements.
• How will our assets and debts be divided?
• What can I expect in terms of spousal support?
• How long will the divorce process take?
• What are the potential costs involved?

Benefit: Having a list of questions ensures you don't forget to ask about important issues during the consultation.

4. Consider Your Living Arrangements
Tip: Think about your current and future living arrangements and how they might be affected by the divorce.

Examples:

• Do you plan to stay in the marital home or move out?
• What are your housing options if you need to relocate?
• How will the living arrangements impact your children?

Benefit: Discussing your living arrangements with your attorney can help you plan for a smooth transition and address any legal implications.

5. Be Honest and Open
Tip: Be prepared to discuss your situation honestly .

Examples:

• Any issues of infidelity or abuse
• Financial difficulties or hidden assets
• Your relationship with your spouse and children

Benefit: Being honest with your attorney allows them to provide the best possible advice and representation.

6. Emotional Preparation
Tip: Divorce can be emotionally challenging, so it's important to prepare yourself mentally and emotionally.

Examples:

• Consider seeking support from a therapist or counsellor.
• Talk to trusted friends or family members.
• Practice self-care and stress management techniques.

Benefit: Emotional preparation can help you stay focused and make informed decisions during the divorce process.

By following these steps, you'll be well-prepared for your divorce consultation and ready to discuss your case with your attorney. If you have any specific concerns or need further guidance, don't hesitate to get in touch with Louisa